So you want to take your relationship to the next level? Your feel ready, confident that your mind meld with the gf is valid and viable. You want to show her that you are a caring and thoughtful man, a guy who is not afraid to show his ‘softer’ side.
In other words, you are going to buy her a dress to wear this Friday night.
You are brave, my boy, and slightly foolish. But it can be done. Other men have done it, and survived.
You at least know better than to try and buy her shoes. No man in his right mind has ever attempted to buy a woman a pair of shoes. It can’t be done. The shoes will be too big, and the woman will come after you with a machete for suggesting she has big feet.